Read This If You Have Trouble “Relaxing”

I was miserable. I just took a day off. I was “trying” to relax all day. All I could think about were all the things that needed my attention. I spend a lot of my time thinking about identifying important things and getting them done. Don’t laugh but this is hard for me. Of course, […]

Being Assertive vs. Aggresive

Tell me if you’ve ever seen this . . . There’s a weird line between aggression and assertiveness that some folks have difficulty negotiating. People who conflate the two tend to be either way less assertive or way more aggressive. Either end of the spectrum has this confusion or is conflating. Let’s use an example. […]

Why I Publish Bad Blog Posts

Yes, I’ve written bad blog posts and published them.  For any of you who follow me or read my blog, this shouldn’t be a surprise. They can’t all be “War and Peace.” The thing that’s difficult isn’t writing good content and publishing it—it’s publishing work that’s not that amazing. It hurts me sometimes if what […]