The Only Time Complaining Works

Let me be crystal clear: Complaining is a failed attempt at processing what’s you’re going through. Complaining is explaining the pain you’re feeling through rumination. Analysis of this granularity is only helpful if you’re going to find a solution. Complaining is never helpful if complaining itself is the end goal. Catharsis is a fallacy. Don’t “get it […]

Destiny Is Another Word for Responsibility

Usually, when we’re arguing about two polarized things, something strange happens. It’s nature or nurture. It’s black or it’s white. It’s free will or devine intention. What happens EVERY time is that it’s not either or. It’s both. It’s not 50/50, it’s 100/100. People who say it’s 50/50 don’t understand that there’s something else happening […]

Why You Should Stop Chasing Big Goals

It’s not that all big goals are bad. Some seem impossible, but in time, can be achieved. But your goal is to save the world–and that’s inherently noble, right? Saving the world is what’s known as a “big, hairy, audacious goal.” I didn’t invent this language, but I think Jim Collins may have. Here’s the […]