Being Assertive vs. Aggresive

Tell me if you’ve ever seen this . . . There’s a weird line between aggression and assertiveness that some folks have difficulty negotiating. People who conflate the two tend to be either way less assertive or way more aggressive. Either end of the spectrum has this confusion or is conflating. Let’s use an example. […]

Why I Publish Bad Blog Posts

Yes, I’ve written bad blog posts and published them.  For any of you who follow me or read my blog, this shouldn’t be a surprise. They can’t all be “War and Peace.” The thing that’s difficult isn’t writing good content and publishing it—it’s publishing work that’s not that amazing. It hurts me sometimes if what […]

The 3 Critical Stages To Conquer Any Upsetting Change

Here is the fastest route available to dealing with difficult change: 1 – Awareness This is the stage where you realize the reality of what’s happening around you. This is where you understand the impact and consequences that change has brought. 2 –  Acceptance This is when you realize that what’s real is real and […]